That’ll Never Happen

Have you ever wished you could go back in time and tell your younger self something?

Aaron and I had the rare opportunity to have a conversation that didn’t have to be started over three and four times and it made me realize that all of the things I always thought would never happen..they’re happening!

Growing up (we’ve kinda known one another since ’98) I think Aaron and I had it in our heads that we had an established plan for our lives-college, good job, and a family.  As we moved through those seasons of our lives, everything seemed to go as plan and then we got to the family part. It’s like we arrived at the final stop on our train ride, per-say, and we got off and just looked at each other like, “now what?”

I tend to be the one who likes to push the envelope when it comes to nudging Aaron and myself into things. You know like taking him to the boat show and leaving with a boat-ha! Or when I felt it in my heart it was time for me to quit work -for our marriage and for our kiddos. Then there was that time I figured since I was leaving my j-o-b, why not have a third child. But if that wasn’t enough, lets just sell our house and move in the dead of winter to an old farmhouse before our baby even turned one. (yes, I know he’s a saint:)

While those of us who like that “prescribed” kind of life, I think we need to find it in ourselves to start dreaming and doing things that weren’t a part of the “plan.” As I get older I keep thinking about having regrets and at this moment I don’t have any (except for my vineyard I haven’t planted-haha!). If we were still where we were a few months ago, I think I would be wrestling with our dreams and trying to decide if they were worth chasing.

This isn’t just about those who have a “plan.” It’s for those who feel the pressure to fall into some prescribed way of life because that is what was suggested to them growing up. While there is nothing wrong with being guided and encouraged to follow a certain path, we have to make sure we allow time to discover who we are and what we want out of life. And if that suggested plan doesn’t work out for you, well then, there shouldn’t be any guilt about that specific path not working for you. It just wasn’t meant to be. We can’t let ourselves get stuck trying to fit that square into a circle just because we think that is what we are supposed to be doing.

So, I think if I could go back in time to my younger self, I would tell myself to leave more room for dreaming and to expect the unexpected because sometimes “That’ll never happen” turns into, “It’s happening!”



What’s Your Mantra?

What’s your mantra?

I’m currently making necklaces for Moms who have babies in the NICU for Mother’s Day. A single word from a moment in time can be a memory worth wearing. When I was a parent in the NICU, there were so many words I held on to but the word “exhale” meant the most (came from a prayer read one day over the speaker). It’s a word I can mentally flash back to hearing and actually doing like it was yesterday.

Luckily, many of you haven’t had to have a NICU experience, but you’ve had other very life changing and meaningful experiences that have inspired and motivated you. Maybe you’re someone who likes a simple reminder of the journey you are on or a word that describes who you strive to be.

Single words are powerful when chosen with purpose. Think of yourself right now. Who are you? Where are you going? Where have you been? Who do you want to be? What word do you keep running into that just seems to stick with you throughout your day? What is YOUR Mantra?

This light weight necklace is perfect for layering with other Jewlery. You can shop by clicking here. At check out, be sure to comment in the “note to seller” box what word you’d like stamped.

Remember, each purchase provides gifts to NICU Parents!




Good morning!  Today’s beautiful weather has got me up and running! I have had several asks about Clifton +Park opening back up after having moved. I am happy to say that I just finished organizing my things and as soon as I have my hubby help me hook up my printer I will be back to taking orders!

If you’re new to Clifton+ Park,  here is how it came about and how it helps Parents!

The Story Behind CLIFTON + PARK

As many of you know, I am the mother to three-Landen &  Caroline (5) and Parker (1).  I decided to step away from teaching kindergarten  in effort to spend more quality time with my children and husband-really get back to the basics of life and slow down. While being a stay-at-home mom is certainly fulfilling, I really felt a need for something more. Unable to put my finger on what it was I wanted to do, I continued to run my parent website,bblissful, as my only hobby.
During this time I was pregnant with our third child, Parker. After being at Good Sam on bed rest for three months with Landen and Caroline, I was excited to be experiencing more of a ‘typical’ pregnancy.  Parker was born at 37 weeks and was perfectly fine until about an hour after delivering him. He began grunting and they found he was in respiratory distress. So off to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) he went for what felt like the longest 10 days in our life.
After having gone through the experience of having a child in the NICU and settling in to our family of five, I still felt the need to do something more. I wanted to go beyond sharing encouraging stories about parenthood from behind a desk and physically do something that would fulfill a creative need but would also brighten someone’s day. Which is when I came up with the Clifton+ Park  project idea for parents in the NICU.
Every time a parent leaves the hospital when visiting their child in the NICU, their heart is still there when they walk out the door. Even after their child graduates from the NICU, the hospital/nurses/doctors hold a special place in their heart. So with that in mind, I’ve created a coordinate necklace to help NICU parents feel connected when they can’t physically be with their child(ren) in the NICU but then after graduating it serves as a way to remember their journey.
I have named these necklaces the ‘Clifton+Park Collection’ after my two pregnancies. Clifton because the window of the room I first stayed in with my twins looked out to Clifton Avenue  and ‘Park‘ because our nurse that delivered us kept calling Parker ‘Park’ out of habit because her grandfather was named Park (she even inadvertently wrote it on his little baby book birth certificate 🙂
It is my hope to sell my hand stamped necklaces in order to fund the Clifton + Park NICU Project.  Each item is $18.00. This covers the cost of the item made and shipping and provides necklaces/key chains to Good Samaritan NICU parents.  Having taught at a Jewish day school for 8 years, I learned that in Hebrew, the related word chaya means “life” or “long life.”  I find the meaning behind the number 18 very fitting since so many babies are fighting for their “life” while in the NICU and all that the NICU parents, nurses, and doctors want for the babies in the NICU is to have a “long and healthy life. “
I can’t tell you how excited I am to be able to give back to something that has left a mark on our family. If you are interested in having one of my hand stamped pieces, please visit my page where you can make your personalized purchase. If you would like to support this project, feel free to email me directly at
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The latest from the farm




What a day…this picture pretty much sums up how life feels right now-but it’s all okay, we’re getting closer to being more functional a little each day.

🛠Typically we start and finish one project at a time but laundry has become more of a need so the kitchen is back on hold and Aaron is working on running all new plumbing and electric for our washer and dryer….I don’t know how he’s doing it but he’s a champ.

As many know from my personal posts, I hate laundry. I like to put it in and switch it to the dryer, but that’s it. I have enjoyed the break from it, but I’m looking forward to getting those machines back to running. Hauling laundry around makes doing laundry at home look at that better 😂 you won’t be hearing a complaint from me for awhile about it.🧦👖👚

You know we’ve been here for going on four weeks. Today was the first day that I felt more at home. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not like I needed this place to grow on me, it’s just getting more used to a place that isn’t what I last knew home as. Its a really good feeling 💜

If house projects aren’t enough, the kids are sick again (they had the flu the other week 😫). Apparently they had fifths and so the red burning and itching skin had appeared on both Landen and Caroline at the end of last week but if that’s not enough Caroline tested positive for strep today😩 I feel so bad for them.

Trying to stop and snuggle with all three kiddos (Parker is teething something fierce) when there are plenty of things that need tending to makes it hard to make progress around here, but I remind myself that these projects are bigger than an afternoon of snuggling…so the projects have to wait.

The snuggles were needed in probably more ways than one…God truly has a way of making sure things stay ‘in order’ according to his plan.

I hope y’all have a wonderful week and I hope I can report on having a kitchen sink installed by Friday! I’ll be happy to put that grocery list together too this week


To see more frequent updates and photos of our journey with our new home head over to Facebook and search The Federal Farmhouse.



Snowy day at the Farm

Another ❄️ day! With having just moved in, it’s really easy to stay inside and work, but keeping in mind that there is more work than what can get done in a day, I told the kids to throw their ❄️ gear and to head outside and enjoy the winter weather.

We got a little shoveling done (we have to make sure Amazon has a clear path 😆), ventured out to see the pond, found one of the original windows from the house out in the barn (yes,I’ll be cleaning it up to decorate with!), and we helped a bird that was caught in the screened in porch.

Snowballs were thrown, smiles were big, and a little outdoor work was completed. The fresh air was needed as well as the peacefulness of the snow falling.

It’s so easy to get caught up in our to-dos…be sure to enjoy rare moments like a snowy day💜

xo danielle